I suggested to Tom that we get a babysitter for Saturday night and have a night out together. We haven’t had any time together, just the two of us since I was a couple of months pregnant and I haven’t had a night out at all for five months. He said no. He said that he liked staying in on a Saturday night and that it’s one of the only nights he is in and he isn’t prepared to give that up. Most other nights of the week he’s at the pub or at the gym. He refused to see that it was my only night to go out but he just wouldn’t back down. I can’t even go out without him as I don’t have any money of my own.