My Dad rang me this morning to tell me that my uncle has died unexpectedly. I got off the phone and through my tears, I told Tom what had happened. He just started shouting at me about something that had annoyed him and how it’s always my fault that he’s annoyed and how it’s me that makes him lose his temper and have to shout at me. Always me. Always my fault. I’m just going to have to try and love him harder so that I don’t make him angry anymore.