Not Settling

I deleted my account from the dating site today. It wasn’t right, as I knew it wouldn’t be. I looked … More

On Yer Bike

Yet again, for probably the fourth time this year, I’ve decided to join a dating site. I don’t know if … More

Bargaining For Love

I’m agitated and in the midst of a hurricane of panic. I’m back in touch with my old faithful friends … More

Balancing

I saw Pam, the counsellor again today. Pam wanted to continue what we’d started with Mum last time. She said … More

Feeling The Pain

This evening, out of the blue, I missed Phil. I realised that although I don’t want to be with him, … More

A Different Perspective

I’ve been missing Phil. Last week I craved for him. I needed his warmth, love and security. I needed to … More

Dipping My Toes In The Water

I went on a date with Theo last night. I arrived at the place we’d arranged to me and spotted … More

Not Enough

I joined a dating site last week and have been chatting with a man called Theo. He’s intelligent, funny, interesting, … More

Falling In Love

I don’t want a relationship. I’ve only been single for 19 months. Since I was 14 I’ve only been single … More

An Act?

I’ve seen Phil a couple of times since our first meeting and I’m starting to feel really pressured. Every time … More

Instinctively Confused

I just knew today was going to be a testing day. I slept really badly, a combination of my back … More

Union

I met up with Phil last night, totally spontaneously. I was at home and child free. It was 10pm, I … More

The Truth Will Set You Free

I’ve told Phil about Tom. I’ve just spent the entire morning getting it all out an email so he knows … More

Falling

Phil was texting me tonight when out of the blue he said, “I’m falling in love with you.” It completely … More

Lessons In Love

I knew the next lesson wouldn’t take long to come my way. I feel like I’m on an accelerated path … More

Phil

Yesterday, my friend, Karen posted a status on her Facebook wall about her new haircut. I left a funny comment … More

Men

Such a lot has happened over the last couple of days. Tom was distraught about the rabbits dying and admitted … More

No Regrets

I woke this morning after a terrible night’s sleep, the wine had given me the most horrendous heartburn so I’d … More

Almost

I met up with Craig for lunch again today except lunch was at my house and there was no food … More

Desired

Craig and I met up again for lunch. This time though, instead of it being two people just chatting, there … More

Sexual Being

Craig’s refusal to just jump into bed with me knocked me last night but I’m glad he did. It made … More

Let’s Talk About Sex

I’ve broached the subject of sex with Craig. Taking those photographs a few days ago really got me thinking. I’ve … More

Naked Truth

Meeting Craig has been so good for me. We talk all the time and I really feel that for the … More

First Date

I went on a date with Craig today, the first date I’ve been on since leaving Tom and my first … More

Dating

I joined a dating site last week. I know it’s been less than three months since Tom and I split up … More