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Tag: Selfishness

History Repeating Itself

I took Annie to soft play today to meet up with her old school friends for a couple of hours. … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, Friends, narcissism, oversensitive, Relationship, Selfishness, toxic relationship

Filling A Void

I’ve just had a moment of clarity . . .  I don’t wholesomely love Gary. There is chemistry between us, … More

Diarist, Diary, emptiness, independence, intimacy, Love, Personal Growth, Relationship, Self Awareness, Selfishness

Me Me Me

I’ve just had a conversation with Karen which was all about a challenging situation she’s going through at the moment. … More

Diarist, Diary, narcissism, Personal Growth, Self Awareness, Selfishness

Beyond Selfish

I am exhausted. I am so tired I could drop. I feel drained on every level and so tonight, after … More

Anger, Boundaries, Childhood Conditioning, Diarist, Diary, needs, personal needs, Selfishness, Stress, Toxic Parent

Self Contained

More and more I’m starting to realise that I’m a selfish person but the realisation isn’t actually bothering me. There … More

Diarist, Diary, friend, independence, Mirroring, Reflection, Sangfroid, Self Awareness, Self Contained, Self Discovery, Selfishness, Solitude, Stoicism

Centred in The Self

Phil texted me tonight, wanting to talk. He told me he’d done a mediation and he’d realised that the last … More

apology, Boundaries, Diarist, Diary, Emotional Needs, Finding My Truth, needs, Relationship, Self Awareness, Selfishness

Unlovable

I tried to end things with Phil today and then I discovered that he is the most wonderful man to walk this … More

Healing Process, Mirroring, Reflection, Relationship, Self Esteem, self worth, Selfishness, Unconditional Love, Unlovable, vulnerable

Breaking Point

We were supposed to be clearing all the crap out of the garden today ready for it to be gutted … More

Abuse, Counselling, Diarist, Diary, Gaslighting, narcissism, Narcissistic Rage, Personal Growth, Relationship, Self Respect, Selfishness, Therapy, Verbal Abuse

Worthless

Looking back, I can see that I’ve always put everyone else’s needs before my own but I always saw it … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, Emotional Needs, Personal Growth, Relationship, Self Awareness, Selfishness, Worthless

Knowledge is Power

One day last week, Tom woke up in a bit of a mood. The best way for me to deal … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, empowerment, Gaslighting, Relationship, Responsibility, Selfishness, Verbal Abuse

Your Department

A few weeks ago, I mentioned to Tom about buying the kids’ presents for Christmas, his reply –  ‘That’s your … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, Relationship, Selfishness

Holiday Disaster

We’ve just returned from a visit to Tom’s family and I hated every minute of it. Tom was a complete … More

Abuse, Alcoholic, Blame, Diarist, Diary, Financial Abuse, Gaslighting, Rejection, Relationship, Responsibility, Selfishness

Laughed At

Tom and I have barely spoken all week other than for him to call me lazy. He always fails to … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, Gaslighting, Relationship, Selfishness

Coping Alone

Katie had her birthday party today. She’d invited seven friends over for a swim at the local pool, and then … More

Abuse, Alcoholic, Diarist, Diary, Parenting, Relationship, Selfishness

Unfair

Tom went to Twickenham yesterday to watch the rugby, leaving home at 10 am and not coming back till 1am … More

Abuse, Alcoholic, Diarist, Diary, Relationship, Selfishness

Selfishness

Tom came home from his skiing holiday yesterday. I went to pick him up at the airport but when I … More

Abuse, Alcoholic, Diarist, Diary, Relationship, Selfishness, Stress

Away Again

Tom has been away for six days now on a skiing holiday with his family. The kids and I weren’t … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, Loneliness, Selfishness, Single Parent, Verbal Abuse

Unbalanced

Tom flew back to his hometown again today for four days to attend his best friend’s 40th birthday party. Again, … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, Financial Abuse, Relationship, Selfishness, unfairness

Homeward Bound

Tom flew home to see his family today. He’ll be gone for five days and other than having my family … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, Relationship, Selfishness

The Battle of Sleep Deprivation

Annie’s been really unsettled for the last few weeks, even more than usual. I’ve been having to feed her at … More

Abuse, Breastfeeding, Diarist, Diary, Parenting, Relationship, Selfishness

The Fine Art of Staying In

I suggested to Tom that we get a babysitter for Saturday night and have a night out together. We haven’t … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, Relationship, Selfishness

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