Beyond Selfish

I am exhausted. I am so tired I could drop. I feel drained on every level and so tonight, after … More

Self Contained

More and more I’m starting to realise that I’m a selfish person but the realisation isn’t actually bothering me. There … More

Phil texted me tonight, wanting to talk. He told me he’d done a mediation and he’d realised that the last … More

I tried to end things with Phil today and then I discovered that he is the most wonderful man to walk this … More

We were supposed to be clearing all the crap out of the garden today ready for it to be gutted … More

Looking back, I can see that I’ve always put everyone else’s needs before my own but I always saw it … More

One day last week, Tom woke up in a bit of a mood. The best way for me to deal … More

A few weeks ago, I mentioned to Tom about buying the kids’ presents for Christmas, his reply – ‘That’s your … More

We’ve just returned from a visit to Tom’s family and I hated every minute of it. Tom was a complete … More

Tom and I have barely spoken all week other than for him to call me lazy. He always fails to … More

Katie had her birthday party today. She’d invited seven friends over for a swim at the local pool, and then … More

Tom went to Twickenham yesterday to watch the rugby, leaving home at 10 am and not coming back till 1am … More

Tom came home from his skiing holiday yesterday. I went to pick him up at the airport but when I … More

Tom has been away for six days now on a skiing holiday with his family. The kids and I weren’t … More

Tom flew back to his hometown again today for four days to attend his best friend’s 40th birthday party. Again, … More

Tom flew home to see his family today. He’ll be gone for five days and other than having my family … More

Annie’s been really unsettled for the last few weeks, even more than usual. I’ve been having to feed her at … More

I suggested to Tom that we get a babysitter for Saturday night and have a night out together. We haven’t … More