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Tag: Unconditional Love

Accepting The Wrong Man

I found myself reading an article today about always attracting the ‘wrong’ man. I based this on the fact that … More

Abuse, Diarist, Diary, narcissism, Relationship, Self Awareness, Unconditional Love

A Sign?

Last night just before I went to sleep I asked ‘life’ to help me find love. I asked for a … More

Diarist, Diary, Dream, Love, Relationship, Self Awareness, Trusting Life, Unconditional Love

Clear Love

I follow Portraits of America on Facebook, this morning this came up on my newsfeed: “I’m on my way to see my … More

Dating, Diarist, Diary, Kindness, Love, Parenting, Relationship, Selflessness, Unconditional Love

Acts of Love

I’m tired and melancholy today. The massage I had the other day, coupled with a heavy, painful period is working … More

Childhood Memories, Compromise, Diarist, Diary, Healing Journey, Healing Process, Reframing, safety net, Unconditional Love

Imperfectly Perfect

I went to Linda’s for a massage today, after I’d got over a couple of hours of anxiety about being … More

Abuse, Childhood Conditioning, Childhood Trauma, Counselling, Diarist, Diary, Fear, friend, Healing Journey, Healing Process, Imperfection, loving parent, Psychotherapy, Relationship, self love, Therapy, Unconditional Love, vulnerable

The Nitty Gritty of You

My Darling, My Future Love, As I sit here on this warm September afternoon I think about you yet I … More

Diarist, Diary, letter, Love, Nitty Gritty, Relationship, Sex, soulmate, Unconditional Love

The Pull

Despite Phil being in a relationship with someone else for the last six months, he offered me sex tonight. We … More

Attachments, Diarist, Diary, Emotional Connection, Intuition, Sex, Trust, Trusting Life, Unconditional Love

I’m Ready

Since the four year anniversary of leaving Tom two days ago, I’ve really felt as though a line has been … More

diairst, Diary, Love, Personal Growth, Relationship, Self Awareness, Unconditional Love

Emotional Substitutes

At counselling today we talked about Phil and a little about Tom. On the way to counselling, Tom, who had … More

Alone, childhood neglect, Childhood Trauma, Counselling, Diarist, Diary, emptiness, Healing Journey, Healing Process, inner child, Letting Go, Neglect, Parents, Physical Attraction, Relationship, Self Awareness, Therapy, Toxic Parent, Unconditional Love

Resistance is Futile

The last few days have been so difficult, I feel sick constantly, I can’t eat, I can’t sleep,  I have … More

abandonment, anxiety, childhood labels, Childhood Trauma, conscious decision, Counselling, Golden Child, Healing Process, Loneliness, Love, Parenting, Personal Potential, Relationship, Sex, spiritual awakening, Therapy, Toxic Parent, Unconditional Love

Open Doors

It was Uncle Kevin’s funeral today. I didn’t want to go. All week I’ve been dreading it, I just cannot … More

Childhood Trauma, Diarist, Diary, Finding My Truth, funeral, Grief, judgement, Self Awareness, Unconditional Love

A Harsh Reminder

This afternoon I received some very sad news. My uncle Kevin died today, he was 67 years old. It’s heartbreaking … More

Diarist, Diary, Grief, Love, Personal Growth, Unconditional Love

Crave

I feel really tearful today. I’m sat in bed feeling very tired, agitated and completely unable to relax. Since Phil … More

Diarist, Diary, Unconditional Love

The Hug

On Friday night I dropped and broke my phone, it had been messing around anyway so not a massive loss … More

Acceptance, Diarist, Diary, heartbreak, Love, Unconditional Love

Invalidated

We decided to spend the bank holiday having a barbecue. As we knew Tom would be at a loose end … More

Childhood Conditioning, Childhood Trauma, Confidence, Diarist, Diary, Golden Child, Invalidation, narcissism, Self Awareness, Unconditional Love, Worthless

The Foundations of Self Esteem

When Josh was a baby, I started writing books for him throughout his childhood and continued doing the same when … More

Childhood Conditioning, Diarist, Diary, Parenting, Self Awareness, Self Esteem, Single Parent, Unconditional Love

A Different Perspective

I’ve been missing Phil. Last week I craved for him. I needed his warmth, love and security. I needed to … More

Dating, Diarist, Diary, Love, Physical Attraction, Processing, Relationship, Self Awareness, Self Esteem, Unconditional Love

Pondering The Future

I’m going to be forty in ten months and it’s been on my mind a lot the last few days. … More

40th, Abuse, Love, Midlife, narcissism, Relationship, Relationship Anxiety, Relationship History, Sex, Unconditional Love

Unlovable

I tried to end things with Phil today and then I discovered that he is the most wonderful man to walk this … More

Healing Process, Mirroring, Reflection, Relationship, Self Esteem, self worth, Selfishness, Unconditional Love, Unlovable, vulnerable

Emotional Crutch

Phil and I went out for dinner last night and then back to his for some drinks. I stayed over, … More

Counselling, Diarist, Diary, emotional crutch, Healing Process, Personal Growth, Relationship, Self Awareness, Unconditional Love, value

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